Body Image – Eternal Battle with Yourself

Do you like what you see in the mirror?

Mirror mirror on the wall, do you like what you see at all?

Body image is a multifaceted construct of perception, imagination, emotions, and cognitive components about our relationship with our bodies. Unfortunately this term is mostly used with a negative connotation in conjunction with topics such as eating disorders, depression, and low self esteem. Rarely do we hear about positive body image and that is part of the problem.

Here are some stunning facts:

– 50 % of 3-6 year old girls worry about being fat

– 80% of girls have tried a fad diet by the time they’re in 4th grade

– 80% of women are dissatisfied with their appearance

 

On a daily basis we are bombarded with artificial, photoshopped images, advertised as “real” women. Even articles in magazines promoting healthy body image and being happy with your body use photos that have been retouched/altered to the extreme. Reality check: those bodies don’t exist in real life!! Children grow up in a society that glorifies an ideal body that doesn’t exist. Every day young girls and women tell themselves they’re not thin enough, not pretty enough, not young-looking enough, their breast aren’t big enough, that wrinkles, stretch marks, and cellulite are disgusting. Who decided this and why? It surely wasn’t based on promoting health. No, it is based on making money. If everyone felt good about themselves, imagine the decline in plastic surgery, cosmetics, and pharmaceuticals, not to mention all the other industries benefiting from your negative body image.

The quest for the unachievable body is futile, explaining why more women feel the pressure to resort to plastic surgery in an effort to keep that ideal image alive. The futility of this battle is based in a process that is natural and happens to everyone, no matter your gender, race, and economic status: Aging!! As we age, our bodies will go through changes and with that, aging inevitably moves us further away from the sociocultural ideal body that is supposed to be thin and young forever. It’s a lost battle.

Negative body image is not inborn but learned! Unlearn it!!

“Approve of yourself before seeking approval from others.” – Iman

So how do we fix it? There is no simple answer to it but here are some tips that can help:

– Kill your inner supermodel! Don’t try to look like someone else; Be your own best self

– Pay attention to your own body and know what you can and cannot achieve, what’s realistic and

what’s not. Push yourself to be the best you can be but never chase someone else’s version of yourself. 

It’s pretty simple: you can’t be someone else!

– Focus on health & quality of life vs appearances; health has no age limit, appearances will change!

– Spend time with real people instead of watching the media’s version of what’s real

– Don’t pay attention to the media

– Talk to your children about body image

 

Note: I would like to note that this article focuses on women because they consistently report greater dissatisfaction with their bodies than men, but the issue of negative body image does not exclude men.

 

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2 thoughts on “Body Image – Eternal Battle with Yourself

  1. Learn to accept who you are and you will naturally become confident and when you are confident, no other negative comments can affect you and there will be no more eternal battle with yourself. Life is short, love yourself. 🙂

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